However, I do somewhat think it's a cop out opinion (in my humble-tree-hugging opinion).
Just because I have successfully conceived and given birth to 4 children does not make me a complete failure in other areas of my life, nor will it hinder any future plans I have.
It is true that I have not spent years studying to become 'something' in my adult years, choosing instead to gain my qualifications in the school of life. Some do not think this qualification is worth much. I disagree.
For instance, I can work equally well behind the counter of a shop, as I can in the hustle and bustle of a busy dressage yard environment.
I can wait on tables...and I can restore tables.
I can file paperwork in the most hectic of offices, and I can file down rusty vintage garden planters and make them usable and saleable again.
I can organise a children's party, and I can organise a venue for a monthly social gathering for local HE families, with the full backing and interest of our local councillor.
I can look after my brood and my home - cleaning, cooking entertaining and of course, educating - and I can look after our small but growing company which will one day become a family business for each of us to be proud of.
These are skills which life and necessity have taught me, and they shall stand me in good stead for future years.
And so, with this in mind, my husband and I have begun teaching the many arts which our business relies upon, to Ethan. He has always enjoyed 'before and after' things, so we decided to teach him the art of French Polishing.
We have so many items to be getting on with, it seems a shame not to teach him how, especially when it is so easy to get the basics.
Now there are going to be those who will look at this and think, 'ahh, that's nice, at least when he fails academically, he can always clean furniture'
And yes he will, and he'll also be able to charge an absolute fortune to do it! Because these are dying skills we are teaching here. And even though he is likely never to become a furniture restorer, or a professional french polisher, with skills like this which he can fall back on he'll never be out of a job because he'll be able to do alot of things fairly well, instead of this fascination people have with being able to do only one thing, really well.
I would rather watch my kids out in the fresh air, applying REAL skill to something they are doing, over sitting at a desk learning how to construct a sentence or understand algebraic formulae which they'll never use again.
Loz